Vedic Relationship Astrology – Part 2 – The 2 Major Blemishes, "Long Woman" and the 8 Categories
Compatibility Part 2 - Assessing Compatibility
Important: As an astrologer, I always use the Tropical Zodiac for reasons which are explained on my website. I also use Equatorial Nakshatras, not Nakshatras with ecliptical longitude. In some cases utilizing Equatorial Nakshatras, a person's Nakshatra will change because all Nakshatras are not equal in length. In this system, some Nakshatras are longer than 13 degrees 20 minutes and some are shorter. I have found these systems, the Tropical Zodiac and Equatorial Nakshatras, to be much more accurate than the Sidereal Zodiac and Ecliptical Nakshatras. If one has Vedic software, and does a compatibility knowing the dynamics of a couple, and the result just does not make sense, I humbly suggest that one try these novel systems and assess the different results.
Compatible and Incompatible vs. The Price to be Paid
Ironically, this is an article about relationship compatibility, however, the reality is there is no such thing as compatible or incompatible. There is only, "Are you willing to pay the price?" The price to be paid to be with the person you like may be too high to be worth the trouble. Or, in the case of high compatibility, the price is low. It is all about what an individual is willing to give for the relationship. As said before, Venus's moolatrikona sign is Libra, the Scales. Venus, as the karaka of relationships, by its very nature, weighs the good and the bad or the pros and the cons, and decides whether it is worth it or not. Compatibility assessment is a tool to show the individual at the very beginning whether it is worth it or not.
Vedha and Rajju, The Two Major Blemishes
Vedha
Certain Nakshatras are "Vedha" to each other. Vedha simply means obstruction. When present, the couple can never really get off the ground, there is always something preventing them from being together the way they want to be. Our destiny is mapped out by the Moon since the Vimsottari dasa is the Moon progressing through the Nakshatras. If our birth Nakshatras are obstructing each other, then our destinies are obstructing each other. If these couples with Vedha actually do make it to the altar, which almost never happens, then there is something in the outer world preventing them from fully being together. More often than not, it is outer circumstances that are obstructing the couple instead of painful emotional issues, passive/aggressiveness or unhealthy co-dependence. These things just mentioned are the realm of Rajju. The destinies of married individuals are almost one. If your spouse becomes wealthy, then you become wealthy. If your spouse becomes poor, then so do you. If your spouse becomes ill, then you must care for them. When two destinies are not jiving, then the people cannot get together no matter how hard they try. There are no exceptions to Vedha.
Rajju
Rajju is another serious dosha or affliction. Rajju means "rope" and it ropes the couple to misfortune. It also ropes the couple to each other in an unhealthy, co-dependent way. These are the couples you see constantly breaking up and getting back together. They are addicted to the drama of the relationship. Rajju binds the couple in five different areas: at the feet, at the hip, at the navel, at the neck and at the head. It must be kept in mind that couples with the same Nakshatra will always have Rajju. They are in a different category. Couples with the same Nakshatra will be explained later on in this article.
The classic texts say that Rajju in the feet will bind the couple to wandering. This means there will be many ups and downs within the relationship and it won't be able to stand on its feet. The relationship will have "its feet pulled out from under it". The couple will never feel really secure within the relationship.
If Rajju is in the hip, it will cause poverty. This can manifest as actual poverty for the couple, but in most cases it is a metaphor for the fact that the couple feels like they are giving up something to be in the relationship. Both people feel a lack and the feeling is very pronounced.
The classic texts say that if Rajju is in the navel, there will be loss of children. This can mean that the couple will be childless, or the children will be a major source of stress to the couple. It also means that the couple will have a very hard time creating together and will find it difficult to work on projects together.
Rajju in the neck will cause the wife to die. This does not literally mean that the wife will die. It is a metaphor for an energy drain. The neck symbolizes choices. You turn your neck from left to right to see your options. Women are more prone to liking choices than men. As mentioned before, feminine energy is receptive. Therefore it is receptive to what comes its way and will take the best option. It is all about options. When a man is courting a woman, he presents her with situations and activities. If she does not like what he presents her with, then it is his job to offer another option. When there is Rajju at the neck, there are no other options presented and the female is basically forced to accept only one situation or activity. This is extremely frustrating to feminine energy and therefore the female becomes drained in a relationship.
If Rajju is at the head, then the husband will die. The head represents the logic and dynamic energy. Dynamic energy is masculine energy. When the dynamic energy is frustrated, then nothing ever happens. Feminine energy needs something to be receptive to. If there is nothing there, which is what happens when there is Rajju at the head, then there is no relationship. Incidentally, in my practice, I have never seen a couple with Rajju at the head.
The following Nakshatras show which Rajju they will have:
Feet: Asvini, Aslesha, Magha, Jyeshtha, Moola, Revati
Hip: Bharani, Pushyami, Purva Phalguni, Anuradha, Purva Ashada, Uttara Bhadra Pada.
Neck: Rohini, Ardra, Hasta, Svati, Sravana, Shatabishak.
Navel: Krittika, Punarvasu, Uttara Phalguni, Vishaka, Uttara Ashada, purva Bhadra Pada.
Head: Mrigashira, Chitra, Dhanishta.
There are exceptions to Rajju. Rajju is only completely cancelled when there is Strii Dirgha, full Graha Maitram, Tara Kuta and Mahendra. If these four are present, then Rajju becomes manageable. If there are three or less present, then Rajju becomes a major problem within the relationship. These are explained shortly.
Capacity and Receptivity Yogas will tell if a person will be happy in a relationship. It is important to remember that a person is exactly where they need to be at any given moment. If they are going through a relationship that causes pain, and their compatibility is less than ideal, then this experience is just as important as an experience of a relationship with high compatibility. It is important to reiterate the concept of non-judgment when it comes to relationships.
Strii Dirgha "Long Woman"
Unlike the previous mentioned blemishes of Vedha and Rajju, Strii Dirgha is something that is definitely desired within a relationship. It is very important that a couple have Strii Dirgha. Energy will take the easiest, shortest path or the path of least resistance. Imagine a circle and around the circle are the Nakshatras. The energy is flowing around the circle in a clockwise direction. In order for the couple to have Strii Dirgha, the shortest distance should be from the Man's moon to the Woman's moon. If the shortest distance is from the Man's moon to the Woman's moon, then the energy begins with the male and is received by the female. If the shortest distance is from the Woman's moon to the Man's moon, then she becomes the initiator in the relationship and Strii Dirgha is not present. The Man's moon must be at least fourteen Nakshatras away from the Woman's moon for Strii Dirgha to be present. There is a 50% chance that Strii Dirgha will be present for a couple. Considering the fact that about 50% of marriages end in divorce, we can see these statistics manifesting. To give an example so this can be visualized, if a Man's moon is in Pisces and the Woman's moon is in Gemini, then Strii Dirgha is present. The shortest distance is starting with the Man's moon and going to the Woman's moon. If the Woman's moon is in Gemini and the Man's Moon is in Libra, then Strii Dirgha is not present. The shortest distance is starting with the Woman's moon and going to the Man's moon.
When Strii Dirgha is not present, or when the shortest distance is from the Woman's moon to the Man's moon, then the Woman is thrust into the role of initiator and the Man is thrust into the receptive role. In a female brain the energy travels much faster between the left and right hemispheres. Therefore, a female is able to instantly know how she feels about something. When remembering the explanation of the Moon, she is adaptable and is round, meaning she rolls with the changes. In a Man's brain, it takes up to 20 minutes for him to know how he feels about something. The energy travels much more slowly between the hemispheres. Therefore, when the female approaches her man with an idea or an activity, it is much harder for him to stop what he is doing and see how he feels about it. While he is trying to figure out how he feels, she is getting frustrated and impatient. The end result is that the man feels nagged and pressured, and the woman feels unloved and unappreciated. This is just one example of what happens when Strii Dirgha is not present.
It is realized that in every relationship, sometimes the woman initiates and the man is receptive. But in a relationship without Strii Dirgha, the fundamental energy flow starts with the woman and goes to the man, so it is a quality of the relationship. The gist is that the woman ends up feeling unimportant and the man feels redundant. Strii Dirgha is usually noticed in a relationship right away and is cause for quite an energy drain. If the couple has over 20 Kuta points, then having no Strii Dirgha is manageable. They are on the same wavelength enough to know that the woman is not trying to nag her man and that the man is not being inattentive because he doesn't love her, this is just the energy dynamic between the two of them. High points with other mitigating factors like Vasya and Mahendra also go a long way to help the lack of Strii Dirgha. But if the total kuta points are not over 20, then having no Strii Dirgha will weigh upon the relationship and the relationship may be more trouble than it is worth. The two people will never benefit from having a proper masculine/feminine energy flow.
Ashta Kutas
Ashta means eight and Kutas means points. There are eight categories from which to judge the energy flow within a relationship from a maximum total of 36 points. Anything over 20 is considered good and marriage is recommended. Between 16 and 20 is considered OK, and the couple can make it if they do not have any major blemishes, have Strii Dirgha, and sincerely love each other. Below 16 is considered very low and the price to be paid for staying in the relationship will be more than it is worth. A description of each category follows. The more points awarded a category, the more important it is. If the points are very low in a category that is worth a lot of points, the couple will have an enhanced awareness of this problem within their relationship.
Nadi Kuta
Nadi literally means vein and is the Dosha of the Nakshatra. There are three doshas, windy, fiery and watery. The windy Nakshatras are: Asvini, Ardra, Punurvasu, Uttara Phalguni, Hasta, Jyestha, Moola, Shatabishak, Purva Bhadra Pada.
The fiery Nakshatras are: Bharani Mrigashira, Pushya, Purva Phalguni, Chitra, Anuradha, Purva Ashada, Dhanishta Uttara Bhadra Pada.
The watery Nakshatras are: Kirttika, Rohini, Aslesha, Magha, Svati, Vishaka, Uttara Ashada, Sravana, Revati.
For the category of Nadi, there are eight possible points to be gained. Nadi is therefore the most important out of the 8 categories because one stands to lose the most points. If the couple has the same dosha for their Nakshatras, then they receive 0 points and it is highly conspicuous between the two of them. This creates an excess of the dosha. If there is an excess of water, the relationship is riding an emotional roller coaster as water is associated with emotions. Everything becomes an emotional issue and when dealing with seemingly mundane, everyday things, the couple will become overly emotional about it. This lends itself to a tremendous energy drain on the relationship and much co-dependence. The ancient texts state that the "woman will die" if the couple has the watery nadi. This does not mean that the woman will literally die. It is a metaphor for the fact that the constant emotional up and down of the relationship causes her to feel there is a lack of serious commitment, therefore she feels insecure.
If the couple have a windy nadi, the ancient texts state here, as well, that the "woman will die". Wind causes many changes, confusion, and takes away a strong focus resulting in a relationship that lacks a firm foundation. When the woman knows that the relationship is lacking in stability, she begins to feel insecure and since a woman's confidence is enormously based upon how she feels as opposed to what she does, this windy nadi will cause her much emotional distress and depression.
If the couple have a fiery nadi, the ancient texts state that the "husband will die". An excess of fire facilitates anger, aggression and frustration in the couple. Too much anger provides an energy drain on men, because when men get angry, it is their feminine side surfacing because they cannot deal with the situation at hand. When a man gets angry, he loses his composure, capability and confidence to handle the situation. When it comes to happiness for men, it's all about capability and confidence. Fiery nadi facilitates an energy drain in men that is why the texts say "the husband will die". It does not mean literal death.
Bha Kuta
"Bha" is another word for sign, like Aries, Taurus, etc. Bha Kuta is worth a total of 7 points, so very important and if missing, will be felt by the couple. Bha Kuta states that the Moon signs of the couple should not be in a 6/8, 2/12/ or 5/9 relationship with each other. For example, to attain 7 points of Bha Kuta, if the woman's moon is in Pisces, the man's moon should not be in Leo or Libra (6/8), Aquarius or Aries (2/12), Cancer or Scorpio (5/9). If the Moons of the couple fall in these positions, 0 points are given.
A 6/8 relationship between the moon's will cause arguing and discord and many abrupt changes, all things related to the 6th and 8th houses.
A 2/12 relationship between the moon's will cause loss, a feeling of lack and/or poverty in the couple.
A 5/9 relationship, one would expect to be quite nice because the 5th and 9th houses are the most beneficial houses in the horoscope. These houses are the most beneficial houses but only in the sense of the self. The 1/5/9 houses are houses of the self. They are the fire triad. When there is an emphasis on those houses, the person can be highly self-sufficient and does not like to rely on others or provide give and take. When this relationship is present between the moons of a couple, they tend to want to teach each other, inspire each other and "get one up" on the other. Both of the individuals want to be the leader and they tend to compete. If the moons are in this relationship, the couple will notice this dynamic in their interaction.
Gana Kuta
Gana means 'race' and refers to whether the Nakshatras of the moons are the race of devas 'gods', manushas 'humans', or rakshasas 'demons'. The following is a list of the Nakshatras and their race:
Deva "gods": Asvini, Mrigashira, Punurvasu, Pushya, Hasta, Svati, Anuradha, Sravana, Revati
Manusha 'human': Bharani, Rohini, Ardra, Purva Phalguni, Uttara Phalguni, Purva Ashada, Uttara Ashada, Purva Bhadra Pada, Uttara Bhadra Pada
Rakshasa "demon": Krittika, Aslesha, Magha, Chitra, Vishaka, Jyeshtha, Mula, Dhanishta, Shatabishak
Deva Nakshatras are calm, serene, kind, polite and steadfast. They stand on an even keel. Human Nakshatras are industrious and innovative. Demon Nakshatras are temperamental, unpredictable, intense and eccentric.
If the couple's moons are of the same race, then 6 points are given. If the Woman has a Deva moon and the Man has a human moon, then 3 points are given. If the Woman has a Deva moon and the Man has a demon moon, then 1 point is given. If the Woman is a human moon and the Man is a Deva moon, then 5 points are given. If the Woman is a human moon and the Man is a demon moon, then 3 points are given. If the woman is a demon moon and the man is a deva or human moon, the no points are given.
You will notice that the woman who has her moon in a demon Nakshatra gets the short end of the stick. In a relationship, this woman will only receive points for this kuta if she is in a relationship with a man that also has a demon moon. The reason for this is that a Rakshasa woman is highly temperamental and emotional. She goes through many severe mood swings and tends to be very independent. Relationship constraints and the natural give and take of a relationship will make her feel suppressed. If the moon in a woman's chart is also highly inauspicious due to aspects by Krura Grahas and Krura Grahas being placed within the 4th house from the Ascendant or Moon, then it will make her that much more fearful and temperamental, causing great distress within her psyche. If the woman with a demon moon has beneficial aspects to her moon in the Rasi, then that will go a long way to smooth over emotional turbulence and severe mood swings. She will still be highly eccentric but will have a brighter outlook. A man with a demon moon will be able to appreciate a woman with a demon moon because his nature is the same and he will be able to understand her.
Graha Maitram Kuta
Graha Maitram means 'planetary friendship'. If the lords of the moons are friendly, then it goes a long way in understanding each other and having things in common. Mutual likes and dislikes make the couple want to spend time together and have hobbies and mutual interests. If the lords of the moons are inimical then usually the couple ends up wanting to do different things at the same time and as a result, end up spending less quality time together.
If the lords or the Moon signs of the couple are:
Mutual friends or the same: 5 points
One friendly and the other neutral: 4 points
Both neutral: 3 points
One an enemy and the other friendly: 1 point
One an enemy and the other neutral: .5 points
Both enemies: 0 points
If the Moon signs are in the 7th house from each other, ex: Capricorn and Cancer, then this is considered highly auspicious and no matter the relationship between the lords of the moons, the couple receives the full 5 points for Graha Maitram.
The friendship/enemy/neutral relationships referred to are the natural planetary relationships according to Parasara.
Yoni Kuta
Yoni means 'source'. Some people translate it as the female sexual organ or vagina and it does mean that as well. The vagina is the physical source of life. The maximum points for yoni kuta is 4. Each Nakshatra has an animal symbol. The yoni of the Nakshatra is the sexual organ of that animal. In times of extreme stress or in very intense situations, such as sex, a person falls back on his instinctive nature, which is his Nakshatra's animal. If the yonis of the couple are the same or friendly, then during times of stress and sex, their primal natures are compatible and they are able to get through the experience with a heightened awareness and appreciation for each other. If the yonis are unfriendly or enemies, then the individuals will react to stressful situations in vastly different ways and perhaps will not be able to understand and appreciate the way the partner handles these situations.
The animals representing the Nakshatras are as follows:
Horse: Asvini (male), Shatabishak (female)
Elephant: Bharani (male), Revati (female)
Sheep: Pushya (male), Krittika (female)
Snake: Rohini (male), Mrigashira (female)
Dog: Mula (male), Ardra (female)
Cat: Punurvasu (Female), Aslesha (male)
Rat: Magha (male), Purva Phalguni (female)
Cow: Uttara Phalguni (male), Uttara Bhadra Pada (female)
Buffalo: Svati (male), Hasta (female)
Tiger: Vishaka (male), Chitra (female)
Hare: Jyeshtha (male), Anuradha (female)
Monkey: Purva Ashada (male), Sravana (female)
Mongoose: Uttara Ashada (male)
Lion: Purva Bhadra Pada (male), Dhanishta (female)
Tara Kuta
Tara means star and it refers to the number of Nakshatras the man's moon is away from the woman's moon. Starting with the woman's moon, count the number of Nakshatras to the man's moon and then divide by nine. To have Tara Kuta, the remainder should not be 3, 5 or 7. You do not count inclusively, like you do with houses. The Tara of 3, 5 and 7 is obstructive for the woman to be receptive to what the man offers her. Tara Kuta is worth 3 points and if absent, is not that noticeable.
Vasya Kuta
Vasya means "dutiful", "subjected to". There are four types of signs when it comes to Vasya Kuta. The Quadruped signs are Aries, Taurus, 2nd half of Sagittarius, 1st half of Capricorn. The Human signs are Gemini, Virgo, Libra, 1st half of Sagittarius, and Aquarius. The "moving in water" signs are Cancer, 2nd half of Capricorn, and Pisces. The 'moving in wilderness' sign is Leo. And the insect sign is Scorpio.
All signs are Vasya, (dutiful, subjected to) the sign of Leo except for Scorpio.
All signs except Leo are Vasya to the Human signs.
The "moving in water" signs are food for the human signs.
The quadruped signs are food for the wild sign, Leo.
The most points to be gained are 2. If the couples moon's are within the same category, then they earn 2 points.
If one of the couple's moons is Vasya to the other, then they earn 1 point.
If one of the couple's moons in Vasya to the other, but the other half of the couple's moons in food for the other one, the .5 points are gained.
If there is no Vasya between the couple's moons, then 0 points are gained.
Varna Kuta
Varna means 'caste'. Feminine energy is more receptive and malleable than masculine energy, so it is better for a woman to marry or be in a relationship with a man of a higher caste.
Brahmin Caste: Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces
Kshatriyas (warrior) Caste: Aries, Leo and Sagittarius
Vaisyas: Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo
Sudras: Libra, Aquarius and Gemini
If the man is of a higher caste or if the couple's moons are of the same caste, then one point is earned.
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Taurus | Learn English | Astrology
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Characteristics Of The Zodiac Mercury In Aries
The Sun is given the most credit when it comes to the zodiac. It is the information people give out when someone else asks "what's your sign?" But the other planets of the zodiac have importance that shouldn't be thrown away. Mercury influences how a person thinks and how that is portrayed to the outside world. Learning, communication and expression are all housed here. It also dictates whether a person moves through life with a strong sense of direction or a tendency to detour.
Those who have their moon in Aries are original thinkers who can make decisions and be forthright. They possess a sharp, intellectual mind that can process things quickly. This person doesn't like to slow down for any reason and obstacles in their path that might slow their forward momentum will not be appreciated and usually will be met with frustration. This need for speed can translate into speech and mannerisms. They are likely to participate (or watch) sports that have an element of speed- such as car races. It is equally likely that there have been speeding tickets handed to this person at some point in their life. They have things they want to do and they need to do them now. Patience is not a virtue that this sign can list next to their name.
All of this energy makes it hard for this mind to stay in one spot for too long. They make decisions quickly, almost impulsively and are unlikely to backtrack to make a correction. This can appear to be egotism to those around this person. Temper and their need for control also need to be kept in check if they want to work well around others. This person should never be put in a position of organizing a team to complete a project. Team work in general isn't something they want to waste their time on since it would be easier (and faster) for them to solve the problem on their own.
Their speech demonstrates the quick wit associated with this sign. There is little chance that anything will slip by them without a comment. Invention comes easily to them and their unusual solutions to novel problems will almost always work. But if the problem takes carefully detailed work doled out over a long period of time, this is not the best person to assign to that task. They will glance at the situation, make an assessment and spit out an answer before the project leader has even finished speaking. And, infuriatingly, they will normally be right.
On the raceway that is life, the person who's Mercury in Aries is the championship driver. They are comfortable with high speeds, quick maneuvers, hair pin turns and bumping others out of the race gently if it is needed. There won't be a victory lap when a goal is accomplished. Until their life is over, this person will always have a new challenge to chase down. As the saying goes, they are truly in it to win it.
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Astrology Forecast for February 2008 – General Tendencies for All Sun Signs
February is going to be a month for changes with two eclipses and Mercury in retrograde... and so many holidays! We'll be ready for parties, we'll be ready for endings and beginnings, and we may run into many old friends along the way. The planets will be getting along well this month. There won't be any planetary squares and only one opposition towards the end of the month. There may be changes ahead, but most of them will not be too painful.
The month begins with Venus and Jupiter snuggling in Capricorn, and that could bring some unexpected pregnancies. It could also bring some financial prosperity.
Mercury and Neptune will also be singing together with Mars doing a little backup for them on Groundhog Day. We may have some very creative ideas, and the energy to make them real through Sunday, February 3rd.
Mercury will be in retrograde through the 18th, and this will definitely be a time for old friends -- some living, some gone. Always Mercury's retrograde is good for ghost hunting, but with Mercury doing the back swim in Aquarius, it will also be a time for hunting old friends. It will be a great time to reconnect with everybody, so if you are thinking of an old friend, go ahead and look them up.
We may really feel like dancing on Fat Tuesday, February 5th, with Venus and Uranus holding hands. The sun will also be moving to conjunct Mercury and the Moon for the solar eclipse. There could be all kinds of opportunities in love, money, science, travel, and just plain new ideas through the Chinese New Year (the year of the rat) on February 7th.
Our imaginations will be active and some of us may be quite inspired the weekend of February 9th with the Sun crossing Neptune. And, we will probably be ready to follow-through with some of those ideas through Thursday, February 14, Valentine's Day, as the Sun then moves to radiate Mars. We will be feeling very frisky for Valentine's Day, so get out and have some fun! It will be a great day for meeting new people.
Venus will be leaving Capricorn and crossing into Aquarius over the weekend of February 16th. We may be feeling like getting out of our caves and maybe visiting some friends.
Mercury will be at direct station on Monday, February 18th, Presidents' Day, the Sun will enter Pisces on Tuesday, and on Wednesday, February 20th, many of us will witness a full moon lunar eclipse in Virgo. Mercury will cause transportation and communication problems from the 17th through the 19th. The Sun will be winking at Pluto as it enters Pisces on the 19th. We will be feeling a deeper part of ourselves, and community groups could make some positive changes. Then the Full Moon Lunar Eclipse comes, making us wonder what really is important. Get ready! Some of us will be breaking up, and some of us will be making up. Some of us will be making money, some of us will be quitting our jobs. It will be a time for changes.
The weekend of February 23rd could bring some problems with authority figures with the Sun and Saturn at a standoff. Or, we may find ourselves back at the office working this weekend. But, things will become more artistic and pleasant by Tuesday, February 26th as Venus crosses Mercury. Things should be smooth sailing all the way through Leap Day, February 29th!
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Venus at the Outer Edges of the Solar System
Does your Venus connect with Uranus, Neptune, or Pluto? People whose birth charts are strong in the outer planets tend to have extraordinary lives. When Venus is part of the picture and makes strong connections called aspects with the outer planets, they're also likely to have a love life that is anything but ordinary. It could be anywhere from star-struck to star-crossed! Let's have a look at some of the patterns you're likely to see with these folks and see which celebrities share them.
Venus and Uranus: (Similar to Venus in Aquarius) People with this aspect have to learn to "hang loose" in relationships or suffer many setbacks. Plain old laundry-folding, rent-paying love doesn't interest them-they want excitement, glitter, and variety. Furthermore, there's often an attraction to slightly dangerous, potentially volatile types, just for the sheer adrenaline rush. They generally relate to people vastly different from themselves-sometimes people from vastly different backgrounds, and sometimes the funky, rebellious, nonconformist who'll jump on a motorcycle and roar off into the sunset.
This can be exciting as long as you don't get possessive and don't want roots and commitment-but insist on them with these Uranian types, and you'll suddenly find them gone. Sudden changes and disruptions in the love life mark this aspect-no Golden Anniversary celebrations likely. And don't expect the person to be there for you consistently...your Uranian partner is likely to be too detached to relate to your feelings. So what's in it for you? You're the one doing the choosing, and you chose this paragon, following the itch of that Venus-Uranus aspect. For more security, you may have to learn to care for people who aren't quite as stimulating, but who are more likely to be there when you need them.
What positives are there in this aspect? It results in a cosmopolitan experience and the ability to get along with many different kinds of people. Often you come in contact with interesting and stimulating people from a variety of cultures and backgrounds who broaden your mind-I call this the Universal Brotherhood aspect. You may also be able to relate to young people and help them through the turmoil of growing up. Furthermore, you may be open and receptive to new acquaintances who are forever drawn into your orbit, so you are always learning from them.
Venus-Uranus People: Those with the conjunction-the strongest of the aspects in that the two planets stand together-include Tom Cruise, Michael Jackson, fitness advocate Richard Simmons, Elizabeth Taylor, and Candice Bergen.
Venus and Neptune: (Similar to Venus in Pisces.) Frequently a savior/martyr complex exists in the love relationships of people born under this aspect. You may very well choose people you think you can reform-Neptune/twelfth house types of people such as ex-cons, alcoholics, invalids, or severely wounded people. A pattern of choices like these can leave you hurt when your goals of reform or cure are unrealistic. After you're hurt a few times by alcoholics, you may avoid them, but proceed to some other Neptunian type. Oddly enough, the more different your potential partners appear on the outside, the more they are alike in their crucial innermost qualities.
With this aspect your psychic sensitivity is very keen, even if you're using it for self-destructive choices. Before you can stop "magically" picking out partner after partner that fits such a pattern, you must become aware of your part in the situation and of why you may unconsciously pick people who hurt you. You are not a victim, although with this aspect you might secretly enjoy believing you are-if so, you're one of those people who enjoy the role of martyr. Despite blatant clues that are red flags to those around you, neurotic need blinds you to the true nature of these people. It might be that dysfunctional partners unconsciously make you feel superior while at the same time like a very special, terribly compassionate super-being who will work the miracle of cure.
Often, too, the problem is related to the model of codependent relationships you saw at home. As a social worker, I found that almost every woman whose husband was an alcoholic had a father or other significant person in her childhood who drank heavily. The masochistic satisfaction her mother derived from being the rescuer and Rock of Gibraltar for the family transmitted itself to the daughter and shaped her vision of what marriage was like. She wound up selecting either a man who drank too much but "gave it up for me"- gave it up, that is, until the first bloom of love wore off. Or else she chose a man of whom she says, "I didn't know he drank," even though she should have been extremely familiar with the signs and symptoms because of her own father. Wives of drug addicts show similar dynamics.
The "way out" for a Venus-Neptune person is to relate compassionately to such troubled people without feeling the necessity to rescue them and play the martyr. A better choice of mate might be someone who personifies the positive traits of Neptune-spirituality, creativity, and dedication to service.
Venus-Neptune People: Those with the conjunction include Bill Clinton, Richard Gere, Meg Ryan, Jodi Foster, Christopher Reeve, and Matt Damon.
Venus and Pluto: (Similar to Venus in Scorpio) With this combination, you may alternate between extremes-being a loner or getting into symbiotic (joined at the hip) relationships so smothering and possessive that it's hard to remain an individual. Jealousy, suspicion, and lack of trust are usually present, along with brooding and bitterness over former lovers you drove away with the smothering routine. "Til death do us part" is your motto in any relationship, so you find it hard to forget-or forgive-the ones that got away. Yet, your intensity and neediness can overwhelm people and make them feel so smothered that they leave.
Control may also be an important issue in your relationships-if it is and if you don't have it, you may manipulate and maneuver until you get it. If the other person is in control, you may exercise the final word in control by leaving. Obviously, this manner of relating to other people leaves them (and you) without much freedom or individuality, and isn't likely to make either of you happy. Letting up on your control and possessiveness is hard work, but persisting in these patterns warps your relationships.
Venus-Pluto People: Those with the conjunction include Antonio Banderas, Duchess Sarah Ferguson, Beyonce Knowles, Dr. Phil McGraw, Simon Cowell, and Raquel Welch.
We've only been able to skim the surface of outer planet aspects to Venus here. How the relationship patterns connected with them arise and how to use them in more constructive ways are very complex questions. To understand where a specific relationship fits into your life, you'd do well to consult a professional astrologer.
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Libra, Sept 23-Oct 22: Think of goddess-like dignity--royal blue, cerulean blue, rose-pink, amethyst, violet. Libra (♎) is the seventh astrological sign in the Zodiac, originating from the constellation of Libra. In western astrology, this sign is no longer aligned with the constellation as a result of the precession of the equinoxes. In astrology, Libra is considered a "masculine", positive (extrovert) sign. It is also considered an air sign and is one of four cardinal signs.[2] Libra is ruled by the planet Venus (which also rules Taurus). Being the seventh sign of the zodiac, Libra has been associated with the astrological seventh house. Individuals born when the Sun was in this sign are considered Libra individuals. Libras are commonly referred to as fiesty and fiery individuals. Under the tropical zodiac, the Sun enters Libra on the moment of autumnal equinox by definition on September 23, leaving it on October 23. Under the sidereal zodiac, it is currently there roughly around October 18 and November 16. Libra, also known as "The Scales" or "Balance", is the only symbol of the zodiac that is represented by an inanimate object, rather than an animal or human.
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A Foundation For Astrology
Astrology studies the celestial bodies affects on humanity. In particular human fate, destiny, and personality were described by the celestial influences of the stars and planets. The roots of Astrology can be traced back to the first or second century BC. Many ancient cultures such as the Egyptians, Babylonians, and Chinese practiced forms of Astrology. Although, the methods of Astrological forecast differed slightly from culture to culture there still remained many fundamental similarities between them.
For example Chinese Astrology which evolved convergent to western Astrology had some major differences. The most fundamental difference being the use of the moons 28 day cycle through the heavens as opposed to the Suns* 365 day cycle around the earth(*Note: The Sun does not revolve around the earth but during this period it was the popular belief). The earliest Chinese zodiac divided the lunar cycles into 4 groups each corresponding to a different season and 7 sub groups corresponding to specific lunar mansions in the season. The seasons were given animal based names for example: Spring=The Green Dragon of spring, summer=The Red Bird of Summer, fall=The White Tiger of autumn, and winter=The Black Tortoise of Winter.
Even though the use of the moon in Chinese Astrology opposed the use of the suns movement through the celestial bodies in the Babylonian and Egyptian disciplines some similarities still existed. These similarities included the use of elemental attributes assigned to the planets. For example Saturn= Earth, Mars=Fire, Mercury=Water, Venus=Metal, and Jupiter=Wood. In addition to this similarity the Chinese zodiac also has 12 signs like its western counterpart.
The western use of the sun as the foci for Astrological studies stemmed from the pre heliocentric model of the universe. In particular Egyptians may have contributed greatly to the earth centered model of the solar system. They believed a giant dung beetle pushed the sun through the sky like a giant piece of dung. This earth centered model of our solar system coincidentally seemed to arise around 1.5 BC right around the time the Egyptian and Babylonian studies of celestial objects began.
As you may suspect there are different schools of thought on Astrology. These include Moon signs, Sun Signs, and animal signs. The popular horoscope used in your local newspaper for example is probably based on your sun sign. In contrast the Indian Vedic school of thought would be more concerned with your moon sign. While the Chinese system uses animal signs in their zodiac and is based on the twelve year Jovan cycle. Some even speculate that there may be correlation between Astrological studies and the Tarot deck.
In conclusion, Astrology has substantial scientific, historical, societal, and spiritual foundations. However you look at it the influences of the planets and constellations on our lives is evident in our every day lives. From the ebbing and rising of the oceans' tides alone it should be apparent that the immense power of the moon has profound affects on our planet. In addition based on this it would stand to reason that as humans composed mostly of water the celestial bodies (ie the Moon) do have a profound impact on our moods, personality traits, and interactions with others. Wouldn't it?
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I’ve Been Tagged PART 1
What's your sign, baby? For those of you who don't know, the "You've Been Tagged" or I've Been Tagged" concept is kind of a Youtube tradition. Once you're tagged you have to make a video where you reveal 5 random facts about yourself. I'm just doing it one video at a time. By the way, My ascendant is in Taurus. My Venus is in Aries. And my head is in the clouds.
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